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HANDOUTS

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Phase 1 - Safety & Stabilization

Establishing truth, safety, and structure after betrayal.

Start here if things feel overwhelming, chaotic, or uncertain.

Phase 1

Trauma Loop Diagram

A visual overview of how trauma responses perpetuate cycles of pain.

Safe Harboring Diagram

Understand safety-seeking trauma responses and boundary-based protection.

My Trauma Cycle Worksheet

Understand how trauma responses shape emotions, needs, and behaviors.

My Escape Cycle Worksheet

Identify personal escape behaviors, triggers, and long-term consequences.

Check-in Worksheet

A structured guide for daily, weekly, and relapse-related check-ins that support honesty and connection.

Time-Out Worksheet

Reflect on triggers and plan healthier responses during conflict.

Responding to Triggers

Learn practical ways to respond with empathy, accountability, and safety.

My Three Circles - Relational Relapse

Recognize relational behaviors that signal disconnection and repair needs.

Contributing Factors Worksheet

Identify what led to a relapse or trauma response so meaningful change can occur.

Boundaries List

Clarify your limits and identify concrete responses that support safety, connection, and accountability.

Time-Out Protocol

Create a clear plan for pausing conflict and reconnecting safely.

Personal Compass

Clarify values, motivations, and what keeps you centered.

My Three Circles - Escape Behavior

Define warning signs, escape behaviors, and recovery behaviors.

Connection Between Trauma & Escape Cycles

A visual overview of how trauma responses and escape behaviors reinforce each other.

What is Connected Recovery?

An introduction to the Connected Recovery model and its core principles of safety, connection, and accountability.

Phase 2 - Understanding & Processing

Exploring patterns, emotions, and building empathy

Start here if you're working to understand patterns and process what happened.

Phase 2

Core Emotions

Introduces foundational emotions and how they drive behavior.

Relationship Levels

Outlines different levels of relational depth and appropriate boundaries.

Life Events Timeline Exercise

Map significant life events to better understand patterns, trauma, and growth.

Emotions Circles

A tool for identifying and naming emotions to better understand underlying needs.

Balanced Connection Pendulum

Illustrates the balance between independence and connection.

Communicating Boundaries

A step-by-step guide to expressing limits clearly and compassionately.

Hierarchy of Needs

A visual reference for understanding emotional, relational, and survival needs.

Balanced Connection Continuum

Shows the spectrum of connection from disconnection to healthy attachment.

Escape Cycle Worksheet

Separate fear-based assumptions from facts and recenter in reality.

Fear Cycle Worksheet

Separate fear-based assumptions from facts and recenter in reality.

Phase 3 - Reconnection & Healing

Rebuilding intimacy, trust, and forward movement

Start here if you're rebuilding connection and intimacy.

Phase 3

Sexual Timeline Exercise

A guided exercise for mapping sexual experiences and patterns over time.

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