BOOKS
Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery
This compassionate and practical guide is designed to help individuals and those in relationships navigate the aftermath of problematic behavioral patterns, infidelity, and betrayal. Click the buttons below to purchase the book from the publisher or amazon.com.
Book Resources
Facing Hope
Facing Hope, the first in the Connected Recovery™ series, guides readers through Early Recovery and truth discovery in the wake of betrayal.
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The Connected Recovery™ books explain the process of recovery and walk individuals (and relationships if you are in one) through each step of the process of recovering from problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, betrayal, betrayal trauma, and patterns of deception. They are written to be read by both betrayers/escapers and betrayed partners.
Disclosure Books
The Connected Recovery® disclosure process is guided by three booklets that walk betrayers and partners step-by-step through a structured disclosure model for any level of betrayal. The process centers on four letters: the What & How letter, the Why letter, the Impact letter, and the Amends letter. The betrayer writes and presents letters one, two, and four; the partner writes and presents the Impact letter.
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Both Booklet A (for betrayers) and Booklet B (for partners) begin with the same overview of the process and include handouts explaining each person’s role and how to prepare for the disclosure day. After that, the booklets diverge.
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Booklet A guides betrayers through writing and presenting their letters, receiving the Impact letter, and completing the Amends letter. It also includes optional timelines and exercises (available separately in the Exercises Booklet), which are not recommended for partners due to potential triggers.
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Booklet B is written entirely for partners and includes everything they need to prepare for and receive the disclosure letters, process grief, and write the Impact letter. No additional materials are required, and the Impact letter process can be used outside of formal disclosure as well.