Betrayal is a complex concept that extends far beyond infidelity. Understanding betrayal requires an exploration of the various ways it can manifest in relationships. Wróblewska-Skrzek (2023) expands the definition of infidelity to include not only physical but also emotional betrayals, such as emotional connections, flirtation, or fantasies. Her research reveals that emotional betrayal is often more damaging than physical betrayal due to its violation of trust and
intimacy.
Emotional betrayal, often referred to as intimacy violation, includes deep, non-physical connections that threaten the security of a relationship. Zeglin et al. (2018) emphasize the importance of understanding the emotional, sexual, and spiritual connections that form intimacy, noting the influence of family dynamics and attachment styles. They argue that proper clinician training in these areas is essential for identifying and treating betrayal-related issues.
Lonergan et al. (2021) further explore betrayal, including not just infidelity but also
abandonment, noting that betrayal is a form of attachment injury. This type of betrayal threatens relationship security, leaving lasting emotional scars. The initial discovery of betrayal triggers a physiological response and deep emotional trauma, often leading to symptoms similar to PTSD. Lonergan's study found that betrayal can destabilize a person’s sense of self and their trust in future relationships, creating lasting impacts on mental health.
Betrayal extends beyond romantic relationships. Lalot (2023) explored betrayal among friends, family, and coworkers, defining it as a violation of trust that jeopardizes well-being. Her findings revealed that betrayal in any close relationship can cause significant emotional distress, regardless of gender or specific circumstances.
Expanding the definition further, Edwards et al. (2023) examine betrayal within polyamorous relationships, highlighting the importance of trust and consent across multiple partners. Their research underscores that breaches of trust, not just infidelity, can lead to emotional harm in polyamorous dynamics.
Overall, a comprehensive understanding of betrayal allows for more inclusive and effective treatment, addressing the emotional, cognitive, and relational impacts of this deep violation of trust.
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